The texts you should never send your girlfriend
These examples are from personal experience or a friend has told me of them…Yes some guys are actually this stupid! If you want to save yourself from a lot of grief and your relationship my words of advice are to NOT SEND ANY OF THE MESSAGE BELOW!
***That is unless your girlfriend is a rational, reasonable female that you have 110% figured out (which isn’t likely).
“If you want”
As if you didn’t already know women have an exceptional talent of reading between the lines and reading that message you sent as a completely different message you didn’t even know you sent.
So if you send her a text in which you thought it was a simple answer to a simple question, be prepared to have her decipher a completely different meaning from it.
“I’m chilling with the guys tonight, but you can come if you want”
She might not react straight away but the words you used are stored in her memory. She will bring it up and use it against you as some sort of evidence that you didn’t want her to hang around with you sooner or later. Probably three hours after you asked her “whats wrong?” and she replied “nothing”.
This will drive any woman crazy. It’s the lack of effort behind it and it looks like you’re not bothered or really paying attention. It sounds silly in black and white but these few characters said and sent at the wrong time in the wrong context can lead to all sorts of wild accusations when really you were just agreeing with her.
“No offense” or “Don’t take this the wrong way but…”
If you start any message with this you have already set yourself up for a downfall, because anything after that first sentence the rest of the message won’t really matter. As soon as her eyes have settled on your opening line she already knows what you are about to say will upset her. You saying “no offense” does not neutralize the “offense” you clearly knew she would be affected by.
“I don’t care”
NEVER send this your girlfriend if you still want to be able to call her your girlfriend. You may think you’re defusing the situation but trust me she will erupt like a volcano. Women want you to care! She wants you to put up a fight, or respond positively, preferably.
Even negativity is better than nonchalance! You expressing no concern for the situation won’t end well and you may possibly end up with a bigger headache than when you sent “I don’t care”.
“Nothing at all”
We’ve gone through the top things you shouldn’t say to your girlfriend but here’s something you may or may not know. Not saying anything at all will land you in the worst kind of trouble.
Every text and argument needs closure. Whether you agree to disagree, or whether you admit your faults and apologise. Anything is better than nothing, well this isn’t exactly true,“k” and “I don’t care” won’t work either.
Women are complex and that’s just it, trying to understand us is not supposed to be easy.
Is there anything I’ve missed out ladies?
Comment below if there’s something that a guy sent you which he should have thought twice about!
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By Annie P